Hey Peg?
I'm guessing this post won't get many comments.
And in a sense I didn't want to write it. But I HAD to!
When I say, 'Hey Peg?' do you feel anything?
What images does that question raise for you?
Maybe Married with Children, maybe a wholesome greeting to a lady called Peg.
Not anymore, it isn't.
Last night I was eating a bowl of my favourite Chinese noodles. It's a really nice one in South Yarra, and you can order extra broth, and it's pretty kick butt.
I digress ...
So I got texting with a friend. We were texting about the state of the world, the interesting observation that there is a surprising conformity among young people as being 'sexually fluid'. Yes, that's not sexual fluids! It is sexually fluid.
So what does sexually fluid mean? I'm sure I'm wrong, however, I understand sexual fluidity to be wearing outlandish clothing coordinates, usually brightly coloured, and speaking like you are sometimes gay, sometimes female, sometimes male, sometimes something else ...
My feeling is is more about playing around with gender roles (not really original, but let's let them think so) and less about sexual behaviour.
By sms, I made a crack about my disappointment in young men. For instance, I doubt there is a nut available in any pack of young men nowadays (Going full Mussolini, DB) ... and that these guys need to speak with deeper voices, buy chocolates, and dominate their sexual objects, I mean girlfriend/sweethearts, by acting like a sex god, in an aggressive but well balanced, sweet, and subtle way - too easy! It's romantic!
That's the way it has been and will always be - since the dawn of time.
So, I was aghast, between slurps of soup, to discover that that's not the way that young dudes are rolling nowadays.
The word is that they are getting rooted by their girlfriends.
That is, without too many details, inverting the traditional male/female dynamic with strap on fake phalluses.
This is, apparently called 'Pegging'.
Can I make an official complaint about this?! Or at least red card it? Or at least appeal to any remaining masculinity these boys might have?
Okay, first of all. If you are freaky and love that thing, go forth and do it. It has a place in a subculture. All for diversity, in a leather basement somewhere, where you are paying top dollar to be humiliated, and you have a ball in your mouth and wearing a leather mask.
But a mainstream practice, sorry no can do!
First of all, while I am straight, I would like to complain on behalf of gay men. If you want to roll that way, man up and at least become gay. Don't pass it off on to your girlfriend, it is cowardly. Gay men should be outraged by the practice.
Second, what kind of guy is so submissive and lazy that he makes his girlfriend go to the extra effort (they already put lots of time into make-up and hair! And now this - - I'm assuming this is not a one night stand thing - or I might faint - surely, you'd least need to know the person.)
Oh please, grow some nads. As I said to my friend, would 'real men' like Maoris or Italian red hot lovers do this. Of course not. "Hey Koa, would you like to grab a beer at the pub?" "Oh no thanks bro, still can't sit after what Mia did to me last night". Oh no! Hell no!
Third, be a man. It's not all about you! Isn't that right ladies? (See DB is sensitive). If you want that pleasure please go and do it somewhere else, preferably with a man, and keep the gay people in supply.
Okay some sexual fluid people will say, it's actually a lot of young women who are the champions. They like it! Of course they always say this ... Again, in DB's old fashioned world view, this is depriving lesbians of relationships. Please be considerate people.
Why can't we all just get along.
Honestly, I'm so distressed, the second bowl of soup disappeared and I didn't realise I had finished it.
I like the name Peg, and you've all just gone and ruined it for me.
We really need a sexual academy, where you can train these men in the old fashioned manners of getting drunk and cracking on to the nearest female.
Geez!
In Peace and Parallel
DB
maybe take up pegging! It seems to fill the void.
maybe take up pegging! It seems to fill the void.
Well I live you along for now, I just wanted the :-, it feels empty without ☹️. I will be back!🤪
Some one is in a funny mood!!
Lol
Unfortunately ( or fortunately, I don't know I have always been life disoriented🤔) I am not gifted that way. I am only a observer, but I can keep the comments colorful, a skill I learn to survive, or a natural gift?
I am here to be educated 😔😔, English, and all.😰
Romance?, No, no, no, keep it juice!!😎 I am ready, well I will try. For educational purposes only of curse 🧐😁
Look at all the comments you got DB, sex always sales. I stop watching french movies long time ago. I never try reading erotica, but if this is where is at, I will make an effort. I will just put on a pair of sunglasses and listen to techno while I am at it, so is a yes for me keep it coming.
They say life begins at 40😉😂😂
You are pure as snow! :-)
😳☺️ I like Chinese food, yes a bowl of noodles sounds good 😶😲😱
So much to say and so little time. I'd love to be having this conversation beside a fire in a Melbourne pub, red wine in hand. Instead, I'm tearing my hair out having to correct every second word that my stupid new tablet misspells - in a flood ravaged town on the Sunshine Coast. It's frustrating beyond words and I can't go on. I yearn for the days when we sat face to face and had interesting conversations
Ah Geez DB, I’m supposed to be leaving to do some grocery shopping & errands……..but first I thought I’d share with you my first hand experience. I became the “fucker” in a relationship I had with a playboy 20 odd years ago. So the story goes, he loved a line of coke or three, and on these occasions (which was quite regularly) out would come tbe strap on and I was expected to “fuck his brains out”. I did it a few times, and afterward lying in bed whilst he and his butt hole snored, I felt left out and questioned what the fuck I was doing, it seemed I was no longer on tbe receiving end, so to speak. Apparently I was talented in this area, and like a horny teenage girl, he wanted it more & more. Needless to say, I left the playboy to find a new fucker, a new sucker happy to fulfil his pleasure, whilst denying their own, for he was always too tired or well fucked to ever reciprocate,
HI @Brendan and the community,
as you see, there are responses.
I guess that my post might be very unpopular, but hey, who cares.
This, and many other indicators are but a clear sign that this civilisation is at the brink of existence. It is Sodom and Gomorrah, but no one dares saying it. Everything goes as long it brings pleasure. Succumbing to all perversions and even flaunting and promoting it.
Celebration of the corrosion of morals and lack of conscience is seen as "progressive". It sure is - "progressive" - we are progressing rapidly toward the end of civilisation.
Women and men have naturally different roles, but they are - equal. However, equal does not mean the same. It is not interchangeable who has a p...s/strap on depending on a rainy day or who won the footy on Saturday.
Anatomy, physiology and biology can certainly attest to that.
As for the shrinking balls in some among male population... It is interlinked with the aggressiveness in some among female population.
We are yin/yang and currently there is more yin (female energy) in a man and more yang (male energy) in a woman.
Two opposing but unbalanced energies DO NOT make a balanced duo. ever. full stop.
DISCLAMER | I am a woman, a mother, and oh so proud to be one. And I believe in the importance of education (being a doctor attests to that) presence in a work force and natural wish to develop and evolve.
However I do not believe in aggressive pursuit of a careers, and the above mentioned perverse relations and mixing the natural roles and faculties and trying to be like a man. And vice versa, man who spends more time in front of the mirror fiddling with the hair and tweezers is unbalanced in the energies.
As I am - a woman. And I have a deep respect for - real women
And I have a deep respect for - real men.
And compassion for everyone else.
And it might surprise you that Nikola Tesla (my country man, so proud to say it) addresses that issue, in a subtler ways, but uncertain terms.
EXCERPTS |
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"I had always thought of woman," says Mr. Tesla, "as possessing those delicate qualities of mind and soul that made her in these respects far superior to man. I had put her on a lofty pedestal, figuratively speaking, and ranked her in certain important attributes considerably higher than man. I worshiped at the feet of the creature I had raised to this height, and, like every true worshiper, I felt myself unworthy of the object of my worship.
"But all this was in the past. Now the soft-voiced gentle woman of my reverent worship has all but vanished. In her place has come the woman who thinks that her chief success in life lies in making herself as much as possible like man--in dress, voice and actions, in sports and achievements of every kind."
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"The world has experienced many tragedies, but to my mind the greatest tragedy of all is the present economic condition wherein women strive against men, and in many cases actually succeed in usurping their places in the professions and in industry. This growing tendency of women to overshadow the masculine is a sign of a deteriorating civilization.
"Woman's determined competition with man in the business world is breaking down some of the best traditions--things which have proved the moving factors in the world's slow but substantial progress.
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"Perhaps the male in human society is useless. I am frank to admit that I don't know. If women are beginning to feel this way about it--and there is striking evidence at hand that they do--then we are entering upon the cruelest period of the world's history.
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"Woman's discontent makes the life of the present day still more overstressed. The high pitch given to existence by people who are restless and dissatisfied because they fail to achieve things wholly out of proportion to the health and talent with which Nature has endowed them is a bad thing for the world.
"It seems to me that women are not particularly happy in this newly found freedom, in this new competition which they are waging so persistently against men in business and the professions and even in sport. The question that naturally arises is, whether the women themselves are the gainers or the losers.
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with respect and compassion
Mona
@Brendan Moloney Moustaches, Beards, UNwaxed legs and arms, UNwaxed eyebrows...and I could go on...
When did men decide it was a good idea to remove all of their body hair? Is this what they think women want?
Are the women who want feminized men closest lesbians or do they want to dominate/dictate?
I don't understand 🤷♀️
This is what the soy/vegan movement has created. Weak pussies (no offence to cats or pussies) who prefer nail polish, butt plugs, and talking about their feelings instead of being actual men. I pray for the straight women out there trying to find a man...an old fashioned man. A man with their brute strength and a she'll be right attitude. A real man who can take the reigns in and out of the bedroom!
Bring back hairy chests!
Very disturbing. Sometimes ignorance is bliss. I'll have to delete my Google search now.